They’re the words that no one that is married wants to hear: your mate is cheating. Sorry to say this is precisely what is taking place in your own marital relationship. It is not like you did not have some suspicions. There had been certain indications that as time passed got more and more difficult to disregard.
One example is your mate said on a number of occasions they were working late. Except when you saw the pay stub it it did not match up with the number of hours they claimed to work.
Then there had been other things like little white lies which went against what they said previously. Or perhaps friends came back and told you about some shady activities they witnessed. After doing some detective work you found out that your mate was without a doubt have a marital affair.
Now comes the other phase and that is confronting them with the evidence. Their reply could go a number of ways so you must get ready for anything. Included in this are:
Either the remorse that they were feeling was too much or maybe they recognize that denying the evidence you are presenting is useless. And so they confess to it. Now just how your spouse confesses is a category by itself. With any luck your significant other will express genuine remorse at what they did along with how it impacted you.
On the other side it could be an admission of the angry variety. Your mate is furious that you discovered what they were up to, angry at being ratted out, ticked off that you were spying into their private life or perhaps all the above. Yes they confess and they are not happy about it.
2. Your Mate Could Care Less
This isn’t so much a confession but an act of defiance. You discovered what was going on and your mate could not possibly care less. Truth be told they’re happy you found out what was happening because now your mate can tell you exactly why they did it as well as share some graphic details. Your spouse takes pleasure in hurting you while at the same time having no regret…